Rhode ISland Wedding Planner & Designer
Meet
Pamela M. D'Orsi
Recognized as one of Newport, Rhode Island’s most sought after wedding and event planners in the industry.
With a focus on strong vendor relationships, an amazing eye for details, and extensive hands on experience, you will be well taken care of.
Her philosophy blends luxury with levity and precision with ease
A Rhode Island native and owner of New England Invitations in East Greenwich, Pamela began her creative career as a buyer for two major retail companies and as an active member of the Junior League of Rhode Island and Atlanta, Georgia.
Pamela enjoys spending time with her son, coaching skating, hitting the ski slopes, and “trolling” the internet and magazines for design inspirations. Pamela is also founder and coordinator for Operation Jack Rabbit, a charitable organization named after her son. Operation Jack Rabbit provides Easter pails to non-profit organizations and children throughout Rhode Island.
Pamela seeks to create a luxurious and flawless experience for each wedding
With an eye for design, a flair for fun, and a heart that beats for love stories, Pamela has built a reputation for transforming dreams into flawless fêtes—equal parts creative visionary and steady problem solver navigating any situation with ease and discretion.
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"We would have been lost without Pamela and her charm, expertise, and industry connections. We cannot recommend Pamela highly enough!"
—Betsy and Bianca
Get to know PDR Events Better
The Ultimate Wedding Quiz
Focus on how you want it to feel
08. If we could give couples one piece of planning advice, it would be…
07. When it comes to guest experience, we’ll always prioritize...
a. Following every trend
b. Thoughtful food & great music!
c. What photographs best
d. Late-night snacks
06. Our non-negotiable when it comes to wedding design...
Cohesion from start to finish
05. Our favorite decor element of a wedding is...
a. Flowers, of course!
b. Love a classic candle runner
c. Linen-only minimalism
d. It's all about the chairs!!
04. Must have party song on the after party playlist
Pink Pony Club
03. One thing we’ll never overlook on a wedding day
a. The timeline buffer
b. Guestlist experience
c. Design cohesion
d. All of the above!!
02. A well-designed wedding should feel...
Effortless & Lived-in
01. What is our favorite moment of a wedding day?
a. The first look
b. The ceremony entrance
c. The room reveal
d. The first dance
By the Numbers
By the Numbers
Approximate hours spent on a single wedding!
856
Years in business doing what I love most
17
wedding planned, designed, and coordinated!
214
About Our Clients
Our clients relish in the finer details and have an affinity for exquisite culinary experiences.
Our clients are sophisticated, well-traveled couples who value quality over excess and experiences over trends. They appreciate thoughtful details, exceptional hospitality, and celebrations that feel refined yet entirely personal. Many are busy professionals who want a seamless, beautifully designed wedding without the overwhelm of managing every decision themselves. They care deeply about the guest experience—from the first welcome drink to the final song of the night—and believe great food, great music, and a smooth flow make all the difference. They’re drawn to understated luxury, timeless design, and celebrations that feel effortless rather than overproduced. Above all, they want a wedding that reflects their taste, their story, and the way they love to host, travel, dine, and gather with the people they cherish most.
